God chose women’s bodies to be the nurturing vessel for His children to grow in, be fed, developed in, cared for and eventually be the passage into this world.
God chose man to provide for, instruct, protect, love, and be the Godly model and example of God’s values and teachings.
In a perfect world that man is the child’s biological dad, however if that man is not saved or emulating Godly virtues, or if he’s deceased, narcissistic, unavailable, ungodly, or unwilling due to selfishness to take on this important role, mothers must find men who are!
Raising and guiding a son into manhood is no small task. It requires morals, commitment, a selfless spirit and a heart that is aligned with The Word and seeks to always do what is right in the sight of The Lord.
Godly dad’s play a pivotal role in demonstrating for their daughters what godliness is, what a Godly man looks like, what hardwork is and most importantly what a Biblical marriage looks like.
Many men are sperm donors. Dropping their seed into fertile soil, but not living up to their responsibilities as they constantly step outside their marriage for selfish reasons.
The only examples they provide to their children is what hurt, pain, infidelity, adultery, selfishness, greed and fellowshipping with Satan and whores looks like.
In these times of ungodliness we need men of God to be the leaders and examples God designed them to be. To follow God’s Word, and not the guidance of the unsaved or misguided, no matter the cost to themselves. For the saved are to live and die for Christ, not self or Satan!
God needs soldiers, strong men of God, to rebuke false doctrines and teachings, advice and pressure from the world! Men of God stand up and into your God-ordained role. Lying, cheating, adultery, adulterated teachings, infidelity, wickedness, the “it’s okay to sin, just ask for forgiveness and continue in your sins” mentality and pornography are weapons of spiritual destruction fashioned by Satan and his minions to deceive and kill the men and women of God who allow themselves to be roped into these worldly things that ruin your walk and darken your soul!
God needs his creation and His redeemed to live a life of Christianity that mirrors His Word, not a life that makes a mockery of it! If you cheated during your marriage and she is willing to forgive you and take you back, God’s Word requires you to go back to her and the family. God needs you to be that moral compass for your children and the fatherless children in your life that you are now living by God’s Word, under His Law and by His Grace.
God needs you. Your sons, daughters, stepchildren, nephews, nieces, students, Boy Scouts, Little League players and other children watching your Christian journey need you too.
Try God’s Way and abandon your own way and see how He moves in your life and in the lives of those you vowed to take care of.
Mark 10:6-9
6“But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ 7‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one. 9Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.”
1 Corinthians 7:10-12
10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
12To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
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